Work Your Magic: 5 Ways to Make Him Yours After the First Date

You've been on countless dates looking for the perfect man and you've just met a guy who meets all your criteria. If you want to entice him into a relationship after the first date, keep these tips in mind.

Show Interest in Your Date

Whether you are being set up on a blind date, you met online, or you hit it off in public, you should approach each date with an interest in the person. Michael remembers a date he went on with a woman he met online. He took some time to read her profile so he knew about things that interested her.

Unfortunately, early in the date he realized she never took the time to learn anything about him and he quickly lost interest in her. If you don't have the advantage of an online profile to find out more about your date, a live psychic reading can help you learn more about him so you feel better prepared.

Remember That Clothes Make the Woman

While you don't have to dress up like a fashion model for your date, it doesn't hurt to put a little extra effort into looking nice. Jim recalls a date he once went on with a woman who took time to put on makeup, but then chose to wear yoga pants. He admitted it was a turn-off because he felt like she didn't care enough about him to put any effort into dressing up.

Unless your first date is at a gym, leave the sweatpants at home. Plus, as an added bonus, picking out your best outfit will give you a boost in confidence to help overcome those first date jitters.

Don't Share Too Much

While lulls in the conversation are awkward, don't feel like you have to fill them by sharing everything about your life. Money difficulties, issues with your family, gripes about your boss, and medical problems are all topics that you should keep to yourself until well after the first date.

Keep the Ex Out of It

One guaranteed way to ruin a first date is to constantly talk about your ex-boyfriend. Whether you have good things to say or bad things to say, your current date doesn't want to hear about it. It's best to avoid the topic of ex-relationships completely. However, if it does come up, a simple answer such as you both moved in separate directions is enough.

Don't Forget to Smile

We all know that first dates are nerve-racking and you are concentrating on so many things all at once, but don't forget to smile and have a good time! If you start to feel nervous, just remember that you're going to have fun with a man you're interested in and who's interested in you. Or, you can also talk to a love psychic to help ease some of those nerves.

When you've found a man you want to settle down with, make sure you follow these tips so he'll be hooked after the first date.